A card game and app designed to help couples learn each other deeply. Go beyond the surface — discover what your partner really thinks, feels, and dreams about.
Tangible cards for date nights
Play anywhere, anytime
Featured in Chapter 9 of The Business of Dating, "Know Me / Know Me Not" started as a concept in the book's Knowledge Base chapter — a way to document and learn your partner's preferences, beliefs, boundaries, and dreams.
It's now becoming a standalone experience — a card deck and app game for couples at any stage of their relationship.
Think of it as the "getting to know you" phase — but deeper, more intentional, and a lot more fun.
Whether you're on a first date or have been together for years, these questions will surprise you. Some are playful. Some are deep. All of them matter.
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